The affair is over. So why doesn't it feel over?

The thoughts that won't stop. The questions with no good answers. The way your body won't settle even when everything looks fine. What you're feeling isn't you being dramatic or stuck. It's what happens after betrayal, and there's a reason it hurts this specific way.

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This quiz is for educational and informational purposes only. Completing it does not create a therapist-client relationship and is not a substitute for professional mental health support. If you are in crisis, call or text 988.