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  • Our Team
    • Our Counseling Team
    • Veronica Cisneros, LMFT
    • Taylor Aiona, LCSW
    • Ashlee McIntosh, ASW
    • Eveleen Lavera, APCC
    • Allison Turrell, APCC
    • Aaliyah Cisneros, Admin
    • Scout – Therapy Dog
    • Employment Opportunities
  • Therapy Specialties
    • Online Therapy
    • Teen Therapy
    • Relationship Counseling
    • Anxiety Counseling
    • Burnout Therapy
    • Depression Counseling
    • Therapy for Women
    • Therapy for Young Adults
    • Trauma-Informed Therapy
    • Military & First Responders
  • Therapy Methods
    • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
    • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
    • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
    • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
    • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)
    • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
    • Play Therapy
  • Workshops
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    • Reignite Your Marriage & Reclaim Your Identity (On-Demand, 4 Weeks)
    • Reconnect With Your Partner Workshop (On-Demand, 2 Hours)
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What Is Trauma-Informed Therapy and Who Is It For?

There are moments when your reaction surprises even you. You snap at your partner and then sit in the quiet afterward wondering why it felt so intense. Your teen rolls their eyes and your chest tightens like something much bigger just happened. You lie awake replaying a conversation from earlier,…

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When Conflict Feels Unsafe: What’s Trauma, What’s Trigger, What’s Truth?

If you have ever found yourself in a perfectly normal argument that suddenly feels like the floor dropped out from under you, you are not alone. One minute you are annoyed that someone forgot the trash, and the next minute your chest is tight, your heart is racing, and you…

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Why We Fight More Since Our Kids Became Teenagers

If you’ve found yourself arguing more with your partner ever since your kids hit the teen years, you’re not alone. In fact, most couples secretly wonder if their relationship is falling apart, when really, it’s just being tested by adolescence. Raising teenagers is like living in a pressure cooker. You’ve…

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When Your Husband “Clocks Out” and You Don’t: The Real Issue No One Talks About

Picture this: your husband walks through the door after work, drops his keys, maybe says hello, and then… he’s done for the day. Meanwhile, you’re still in the thick of dinner prep, homework help, laundry piles, and bedtime routines. If you’ve ever thought, “Must be nice to clock out,” you’re…

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Marriage in Crisis: What Happens Behind Closed Doors in Couples Therapy

You know those movie scenes where a couple sits stiffly on a couch, arms crossed, glaring at each other while the therapist quietly scribbles notes? That is not what couples therapy actually looks like. Unless, of course, you count the occasional crossed arms. If your marriage feels like it is…

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Read more about the article When You’re Torn Between Staying for the Kids and Leaving for Yourself

When You’re Torn Between Staying for the Kids and Leaving for Yourself

You lie awake at night, replaying every conversation, every moment of tension, every time you pretended things were “fine” for the sake of the kids. Maybe you’ve asked yourself: Am I doing more harm by staying? Will leaving ruin them? What if I regret it? This is the quiet agony…

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How to Revive Romance in a One-Sided Marriage: Tips from a Therapist

Marriage can be challenging, and many people walk down the aisle thinking they’re stepping into their "happily ever after." But the truth is, after the honeymoon phase fades, some find themselves in a relationship that feels out of balance. “We’re more like roomates than a couple.” Do you ever feel…

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